1.Gender socialization plays a vital role in shaping one’s cultural beliefs and

1.Gender socialization plays a vital role in shaping one’s cultural beliefs and behaviors. From a young age, individuals are socialized into specific gender roles and expectations that are often influenced by cultural norms and traditions. This process results in differing cultural experiences and perspectives between men and women. For example, in many cultures, women are expected to prioritize their family and caregiving responsibilities, while men are encouraged to pursue careers and financial success. These societal expectations not only impact individual behavior but also shape larger cultural values and norms. Understanding the role of gender socialization in cultural diversity is crucial in promoting inclusivity and equality in all aspects of society.Growing up in the South, I was exposed to traditional gender roles and expectations from a young age. In my family and community, there was a clear distinction between what was considered appropriate behavior for boys and girls. Boys were encouraged to be strong, assertive, and dominant, while girls were expected to be nurturing, submissive, and focused on maintaining their appearance. These gender expectations were reinforced through subtle messages in the media, in religious teachings, and in the language used to describe and categorize people. As a result, I internalized these beliefs about gender and began to conform to these expectations in my own behavior and attitudes.”
We normally refer to the people responsible for our socialisation as agents of socialisation and, by extension, we can also talk about agencies of socialisation (such as our family, the education system, the media and so forth).
Gender socialization is a form of primary socialization which is the process by which children and infants learn the norms and behaviors associated with their gender. It is thought to occur within the family, peer groups, mass media and school curriculum (Bhattacharjee, 2021).”
However, as I grew older and became more aware of the limitations and harms of rigid gender roles, I began to question and challenge these beliefs. I started to see how the strict enforcement of gender norms in my southern culture had negative consequences for both men and women. Men were pressured to suppress their emotions and vulnerabilities, leading to mental health issues and an inability to form deep, meaningful relationships. Women were confined to domestic roles and denied opportunities for personal and professional growth. Through my own experiences and education, I have come to understand that gender is a social construct that can be deconstructed and reimagined. By challenging traditional gender norms and advocating for equality and diversity, I hope to contribute to a more inclusive and empowering society for all individuals, regardless of their gender identity.
Guy-Evans, O. (2024, February 13). Gender Socialization: Examples, Agents & Impact. Simply Psychology. https://www.simplypsychology.org/gender-socialization.html
question for the class: how can you break the mold that was taught by your parents to better society to lead towards a more peaceful society?
2.  When I was younger, back in the early 80’s, there really was no aligned genders that I could remember. I am African American and was raised in a southern black household as well as a predominately black neighborhood where the majority of households were mom and dad raised their kids according to their assigned gender in a traditional manner. We already understand that the process of gender socialization begins very early in life where young children develop an understanding of the difference between genders. I remember those days of growing up in the deep south of Opelousas, Louisiana where I played with my cousins. We always played “House”. I was the mother, my cousin Tyson was the dad and my other cousins played the sister and brother. The boys never wanted to wear anything pink or played with dolls because it was already engraved that those things were meant for girls. This is the way many black families were raised. It was really never mentioned of a female being gay, trans or bisexual. We only understood exactly the way we were born….girls grew up, got married,  have kids and be that perfect housewife.  My experiences are slightly different culturally than that of my peers. Many friends of mine think like me but, would probably embrace the idea of a same sex relationship. I guess they are sort of on each side of the fence. However, I only knew that boys grow up to be men and girls grow up to be women. This is me, culturally based.